Husband Wants To Wait For A Baby…i’m Going To Stop Taking Pill?
This may sound a little strange considering i have three beautiful children, but i’m so upset. I’m a 27yr old female. I’m married very happily this past 5yrs. I’m a stay at home mom who lives on the edge of a beautiful town in an enormous home which begs to be filled by babies.I have everything i could every want. I have three beautiful children 5yrs and 3yrs, and a one yr old, 2 adorable girls and a boy. The thing is i want more babies to balance out my family. I see no reason to not start trying now.We have everything we want including a darling nanny and part time housekeeper as i persue my interests of yoga, art and chartiy work alongside motherhood. I find motherhood a doddle and just love it. My mom lives around the corner, my two sisters up the road whom i’m very close to. Its just a heavenly cocoon of happiness but i want to start extending the family now before i’m too old. Even my labours have been max 2 hrs each and the baby weight has just fell off within weeks as i do so much healthy eating and exercise throughout each pregnancy. I think its my calling, i love children and enjoy the joys of being a mother. However, my husband wants to wait another 2 yrs to space our children out…this is sooo not fair…i’ll be 28 next birthday and dont want to be an old mum. Why deny me of something that i’m so blessed at and find so easy? I do most of the rearing as my husbands mainly only here late evening and weekends. I’m going to our Summer house in France in June and would love to be pregnant before going.. Plus my husband is 39 so he will totally be older.
How strange that you should find it so easy with a nanny and a housekeeper.
You are totally selfish only thinking about yourself. You husband is probably stressed out with work working away to pay for your comfortable lifestyle and all you can do is think about yourself? You already have three children so enjoy them and be patient whilst you wait. Too many marriages have ended in adultery because of demanding wives like yourself. .
I think you need to wake up and join the real world, your not even a full time mother to the 3 children you have, motherhood is a doddle because you only play at it. Give your husband a break and think of him instead of yourself all the time.
I don’t think you should stop taking the pill without talking to your husband first. Isn’t having a baby supposed to be a joint decision?
Ha ha– someone called you out as a troll.
Is this all you have time for? Making up strange lives on yahoo…wow dude…i am sorry
You sound screwed up in the head. Respect your husband’s wishes. He IS the one paying the bills right?
troll you were 41 earlier with no kids and a cheating 25 yr old bf!!!!
get a life!!!
If your going to stop taking the pill then you really need to think about this… what would your husband do if he found out?
maybe your husband will change his mind about the 2 year spacing? and maybe your could decide on a years time together?
Oh and your not ’screwed in the head’ … having another baby can be a really strong urge! you just need tolearn how to deal with it…
either way.. do what makes you happy. you only get one shot at life!
Do you want to add more to embellish the fantasy? How about make yourself a celebrity in your next question? Or talk about how you are going to fit the carseats in your Bentley?
*sigh* Boring.
Hey, how about explain how you have a 41 year old son in your other question? That should be a fun story!http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
Well by your title I hope you don’t mean you’re going to stop taking the pill and not tell him. You don’t want to get pregnant while one member is not in agreeing terms with it. You sound really happy now and things seem to be going great for you, enjoy it for a while because many people are not as lucky as you are. You need to have a mature, productive talk with your hubby. I’m sorry to say but it’s not these blogs that are going to help you out. You need to sit down with your husband and let him know you’d love another child. Maybe you guys can compromise, there might still be a wait but maybe it won’t be 2 yrs.
You need to keep communicating with each other so that your relationship lasts, for the sake of your happiness and the well-being of your children.
I wish you and your family the best
It would be very wrong to go ahead with your plan as your husband is not keen on the idea. You can’t force something like parenthood on a person. You sound as if you have the ideal life but did you stop to think that it may not be ideal for your husband ,he is the one working hard to support you all. Also,with the current economic climate he may be reluctant to take on any extra expense . The perfect life can disappear overnight so perhaps this is not a good time to plan another child.