Comments on: Using Condoms During Marriage…?

By: Rockst*r

Rockst*r — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:20:52 +0000

My boyfriend and I have never used a condom together (dating 3 years, living together 8 months). I just went off birth control because I had lost all my sexual desire on it…
we just tried a condom and that was the most horrible experience. It’s not skin to skin contact so it hurt me, and he didn’t feel anything half the time.
Going to try the female condom now, but then I’m looking at other methods. Otherwise I’ll have to go back to bc because that was really bad…

By: bryanna2

bryanna2 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:01:21 +0000

Try a “lamb skin condom” it doesnt protect against STD but it does against preganacy. it doesnt reduce the pleasure as a normal latex condom. feels natural. for both me and my partner are very satified. only thing is that they are very pricy. message me if you need help.
amysloverdavid@yahoo.com

By: Grace!!! Your brand of heroin!:D

Grace!!! Your brand of heroin!:D — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:48:41 +0000

Have you researched the implant (birth control for 5 years)
Mirena is a tiny T-shaped piece of plastic that is placed into the uterus by your healthcare professional. Once Mirena is in place, it begins to slowly release small amounts of the hormone levonorgestrel into your uterus. It does not contain estrogen, so you can be free of estrogen-related side effects.
SIDE AFFECTS @ 3 MONTHS & 5 YEARS
Lower abdominal pain (cramping) 10.5% (3mo) 2.0%(5yrs)
Acne or other skin problems 3.5%(3mo) 1.8% (5yrs)
Back pain 3.1% 1.0%
Breast tenderness 3.1% 1.0%
Headache 2.8% 1.6%
Mood changes 2.5% Less than 1.0%
Anyway, condoms are not bad but I think that sex is a very personal thing. Condoms desensitize the penis a little, but if you and your husband are both comfortable then its not our call! GOOD LUCK

By: bmwjock2

bmwjock2 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 06:17:11 +0000

i think that alot of people still use sex in marriage and if thats what you want then you can but yeh i think condoms reduce sensation for both men and women but otherwise there is a risk of pregnancy and if your determined not to go on a ny oter contraceptive then there is no other alternative

By: hustla a8

hustla a8 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 04:40:31 +0000

Well using condoms is not only for boyfriend/girlfriends. there are many married people who use condoms and will contuine to use them till they are ready to have a baby.

By: William R

William R — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 23:37:11 +0000

diffrent condoms do diffrent ****, its always prefrence. but by the time ur married u dont need condoms as much becuase ur older and kno when ur period will come so u kno when not to have sex. or blowjobs always work

By: Mike

Mike — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:49:31 +0000

I don’t know why some guys are so hung up about “it reduces pleasure” Um, no it doesn’t. It might delay ejaculation, but there’s still plenty of pleasure!!!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:38:24 +0000

If he has a nice size penis it should not bother him. I use Trojan X L’s lubricated and it great for me. I love it when she’s putting them on.

By: shott_b

shott_b — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:03:47 +0000

I’m also a virgin, but from what I’ve read, the condom does reduce pleasure. But there’s nothing wrong with using a condom during marriage. If you don’t your eggo to get prego, that’s perfectly fine. Cuz once that happens, it’s a doodle that can’t be undid, homeskillet. XD
haha, sorry. I really like those lines from ‘Juno.’ XD

By: kheserth

kheserth — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 10:27:09 +0000

The condom only reduces sensation slightly.
The pleasure is certainly heightened by the knowledge that there is only a tiny chance that she can get pregnant while I’m protected. Worth it.