I’m Sick & He’s Out Partying While I’m Waiting For My Medicine,did I Overreact When I Told Him Not To….?
I’m sick {seasonal flu—been to doctor already} and my boyfriend was supposed to go out and get me some medicine since we didn’t have any more. He left an hour ago. The store is right up the street so I texted him & asked him what happened,I was thinking it was bad. He texts me back and says he’s a a friend’s house partying and that I should be able to wait until he gets back. I asked him if he was leaving and he said not for at least a 3 hours. So I told him I’d get my own medicine and that he didn’t have to bother to come back home anytime soon as far as I was concerned{we live together}. He got mad and said I was overreacting. I guess I’m more upset about this because when he was sick he was rushing me to come back cause he didn’t feel well.
Do you think I was overreacting? I mean should I be happy to have to wait 4+ hours for my medicine?
No you’re not over-reacting! He sounds like an asshole, to be honest. If he had your best interest in mind and truly cared about you he would’ve at least brought you the medicine before he went out partying. You deserve better.
Damnn, you have every right to be mad! It makes him look bad.. like he doesn’t care about you to make you wait 4 hours at home, while your sick, waiting on ur medicine and he is over at a friends party. like wtf? I hope my bf never does this to me or we will have big problems.
No, I don’t think you are overreacting. He is being thoughtless and inconsiderate. If he wanted to party he should have bought your medicine back to you then gone out.
You definitely are not overreacting, that’s messed up he would do that, even the smallest problem with someone I care about would be bigger to me than anything else, he really should be more considerate
ur fine on this one chick. if he did wanna go party, he could have at least asked you if it was cool if he came back a little later. but why didnt he call you and ask? it’s because he knew you would say no. he knows he is wrong and hes a fart head. i would suggest rigging up a bucket of water over the door so when he walks in he gets soaked! okay jk but i hope you feel better
No, I don’t think that you are over reacting, mainly because he told you that he was going out to get you your medicine, and didn’t inform you that you would have to be miserable for another few hours waiting for him to get back. He essentially led you to believe that your well- being was more important to him than any selfish interests of his own, and it turns out that this is not the case.
You have a right to be angry here. Just don’t over do it. Go get yourself your medicine, and sleep on the couch tonight, and give yourself some time to cool off. Let him know, calmly, how he made you feel and then try to reach a point where the two of you are okay with each other again before you go to bed for the night.